I Was Broke Because I Wanted To Be

I Was Broke Because I Wanted To Be

When I was forty years-old, a friend asked if I wanted to invest in a commercial real estate deal. He was assembling a partnership to purchase a small retail building. At the time, I was a property manager, and my friend was a broker.

Investing in commercial real estate had been a goal, but my finances were a mess. Unfortunately, I had to wait. I couldn’t admit my poor financial situation, so I simply asked my friend to think about me for the next deal.

That embarrassing moment ignited a desire to be in a real estate deal. But to achieve that dream, there was one thing I needed to do—grow up.

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You Don't Buy Things With Money

You Don't Buy Things With Money

I was recently talking with a colleague who said he was close to retiring. Gil (not his real name) is in his early fifties and slightly quirky. He’s the type of guy who marches to the beat of his own drummer. Although he works for a large, corporate-think company, he sports a long beard and tattoos. He’ll freely talk about politics and other matters that most folks would shy away from. With his wife, he lives in the country – far away from the hustle and bustle of society.

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What are the Poor Four?  And are They Keeping You from Being Wealthy?

What are the Poor Four?  And are They Keeping You from Being Wealthy?

I read the most astounding paragraph in the June 19th, 2018 edition of USA Today. In Wealth of Millionaires Surges 10.6% to top $70 Trillion for the First Time, David Carrig was reporting on the World Wealth Report 2018 recently released from global consulting firm Capgemini. It was the third paragraph of the article that really caught my attention,

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Investing is Risky. So is Life. Get over it.

Investing is Risky.  So is Life.  Get over it.

We spend our lives with risk.

There is everyday risk like driving to and from work, school, or some event with our spouse. At any moment, we put ourselves on the road with other people who may or may not be in full control of themselves whether it be from alcohol, lack of sleep, or relationship induced stress. Some of these people are just plain morons who should not be allowed to drive - but they're given a license anyway and we willingly chose to get on the road with them.

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Do the Wealthy Get Tattoos?

Do the Wealthy Get Tattoos?

I’m afforded a position where I work daily with a wealthy clientele. Most of this group came to their affluence through hard work and creativity. In other words, it wasn’t generational, gifted upon them by a relative after their passing. These men and women had to get up every morning to earn their piece of the pie. The majority of them are baby boomers and Gen Xers. However, some of my clients are now millennials who have out-hustled others and created their wealth early in life. I consider myself lucky to work with these clients because I’m able to learn by their example.

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Why Viewing Pet Ownership as Only a Cost is Short-Sighted

Why Viewing Pet Ownership as Only a Cost is Short-Sighted

I want a dog.

Until recently I’ve had a dog, even a couple dogs at a time. I’ve had them since I was a little boy. They’ve been there to catch tennis balls and run through various neighborhoods. Dogs have listened to my stories of success as well as tales of woe. Moments of crazy happiness have been had with them as well as calm reflection.

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Why I Quit Golf

Why I Quit Golf

When I tell folks that I quit playing golf, there’s often a look of confusion followed by an exasperated, “Why?” It’s not like I’m walking around, declaring, “I quit golfing. Hear ye, hear ye, I’ve quit the game of golf.” I’ve been quiet about so it’s taken some time for most of my friends and clients to discover that I’ve tossed this game to the proverbial curb.

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